https://www.tiktok.com/@jamylecannon/video/7326203811847048478?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=mobile&sender_web_id=7206833020951037483 live in community, how to do so fairly, or how to structure so everyone feels fairly represented and heard, cared for. NVC classes? gridwork to frame it on, everyone buys in or else it doesn't work? flaws in communes? maybe community doesn't mean proximity for some